tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post6618544031588313459..comments2024-03-26T03:57:26.437-07:00Comments on The Fike Life: 5 favorite rules to break with a new babyBlythe Fikehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01083711888523698156noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-29622019769363676592017-03-10T07:07:32.592-08:002017-03-10T07:07:32.592-08:00
HOW TO GET OVER MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS...<br />HOW TO GET OVER MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS SOLVED WITH LOVE SPELL: CHECK ON DR. SAMBO WEBSITE: http://divinespellhome.wixsite.com/drsamb<br /><br /><br /><br />Hello to you all,i want to use this time to thank Dr. Sambo for what he has done for me last week here ,my names are marjorie mc cardle from Australia,<br />I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called divinespellhome@gmail.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My Husband divorce me with no reason for almost 5 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love him so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and he woke up one morning and he told me hes going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when he came back from work he tender to me a divorce letter and he packed all his loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have him back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 5 years So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and his picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solutions when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that hes with a woman and that woman is the reason why he left me The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring him back.but i never believe all this he told me i will see a positive result within 24 hours of the day..24hours later,he called me himself and came to me apologizing and he told me he will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and i got pregnant a month later and find a better job..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him <br /><br /><br />divinespellhome@gmail.com CONTACT THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SPELL CASTER CALLED DR SAMBO… HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS divinespellhome@yahoo.com CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE FAST ABOUT IT SO HE CAN ALSO ATTEND TO YOU BECAUSE THE EARLIER YOU CONTACT HIM NOW THE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET QUICK SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS, <br />visit his website at http://divinespellhome.wixsite.com/drsamb<br />Phone number:+2348039456308.<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-17113488272193349632017-03-10T07:07:12.476-08:002017-03-10T07:07:12.476-08:00
HOW TO GET OVER MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS...<br />HOW TO GET OVER MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS SOLVED WITH LOVE SPELL: CHECK ON DR. SAMBO WEBSITE: http://divinespellhome.wixsite.com/drsamb<br /><br /><br /><br />Hello to you all,i want to use this time to thank Dr. Sambo for what he has done for me last week here ,my names are marjorie mc cardle from Australia,<br />I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called divinespellhome@gmail.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My Husband divorce me with no reason for almost 5 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love him so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and he woke up one morning and he told me hes going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when he came back from work he tender to me a divorce letter and he packed all his loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have him back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 5 years So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and his picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solutions when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that hes with a woman and that woman is the reason why he left me The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring him back.but i never believe all this he told me i will see a positive result within 24 hours of the day..24hours later,he called me himself and came to me apologizing and he told me he will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and i got pregnant a month later and find a better job..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him <br /><br /><br />divinespellhome@gmail.com CONTACT THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SPELL CASTER CALLED DR SAMBO… HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS divinespellhome@yahoo.com CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE FAST ABOUT IT SO HE CAN ALSO ATTEND TO YOU BECAUSE THE EARLIER YOU CONTACT HIM NOW THE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET QUICK SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS, <br />visit his website at http://divinespellhome.wixsite.com/drsamb<br />Phone number:+2348039456308.<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-27114627025281943162016-06-28T11:41:51.513-07:002016-06-28T11:41:51.513-07:00شركه تنظيف منازل بالمدينه المنوره
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I never post on blogs, but I loved this...Blythe! <br /><br />I never post on blogs, but I loved this one. For one thing, it was a brave post. Thank you for giving us a glimpse of "real life". In my ideal life, I am super disciplined and can control myself when it comes to all the wonderful things (i.e. wine, chocolate, coffee with lots of cream...), but my reality is so very different. Even though I only have one child so far, my motto throughout pregnancy and now in parenthood has been that I have to get through this too. I don't want to make myself miserable with rules that may not actually apply to my situation. I have not read books to teach me how to parent. I have only consulted sources when I have problems. While I don't do all the things you posted here, I am all about adjusting all our lives to fit together as well as possible as soon as possible. Was I happy when my 6 week old got cake icing? Not particularly, but the repercussions of interfering with that were not worth it. A little cake icing never killed anyone.<br /><br />Sorry for the rambling. You just really struck a chord with this piece! Keep on keeping on, girl!<br /> Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00127233539549243381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-69039203424757966742014-06-15T06:05:17.803-07:002014-06-15T06:05:17.803-07:00I do know what "MD" stands for: "me...I do know what "MD" stands for: "medical doctor." However, a "doctorate" is not the same thing. A doctorate is a PhD, otherwise known as a "terminal degree" or the highest degree awarded by a university. A medical degree is a different matter altogether. I guess I'm attuned to this because my late husband had two bachelor's degrees (a BA in history and a BSN in nursing) and I have a master's degree in education, so the correct terminology makes a lot of difference to me; I wasn't trying to split hairs. A doctorate might very well be in anthropology or art history or something. An MD, however, actually does have the expertise to which you referred. That's why I jumped in to clarify things—I thought. Looks like I just muddied the waters, though!<br /><br />That's probably all the light I can shine on this discussion, so I'm bowing out now.Melissa H-Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03674140433439195917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-23544652710206449742014-06-15T03:18:23.959-07:002014-06-15T03:18:23.959-07:00Some comments are anonymous because all the other ...Some comments are anonymous because all the other options require logging into something that I don't even have an account for. I don't want to set one up because I feel no need to put my personal information on the internet unless it is absolutely necessary. This is not a place where my personal information is necessary.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-91389133682372173362014-06-15T03:14:11.656-07:002014-06-15T03:14:11.656-07:00Rule #6 - No car seat! I much prefer to hold my ba...Rule #6 - No car seat! I much prefer to hold my baby in the car just like mothers have done for years! Car seats are just for those mothers that lack common sense and choose dangerous roads! (sarcasm - don't actually do this)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-74867244115081437302014-06-15T03:08:23.760-07:002014-06-15T03:08:23.760-07:00The medical community determined the risk of aspir...The medical community determined the risk of aspiration was far lower than the SIDS risk for back sleeping. That is why the change was made. When the switch was made. A very sudden drop in SIDS was seen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-59964887493978585962014-06-15T03:07:04.054-07:002014-06-15T03:07:04.054-07:00Melissa, do you know what MD stands for?Melissa, do you know what MD stands for?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-33927564282437072452014-06-13T20:51:08.213-07:002014-06-13T20:51:08.213-07:00I just want to point out one thing that I think ha...I just want to point out one thing that I think has been overlooked in this discussion- SIDS and suffocation are NOT the same thing! I agree that a baby that can turn its head from side to side is not in as much danger of suffocation, but that has nothing to do with SIDS risk. SIDS is an unexplained death which current research points to being caused by immature brain centers which control breathing. For some babies this is worse when in deep sleep which for most babies correlates with sleeping on their stomachs. It is thought that the lighter sleep associated with back sleeping is protective for some babies against SIDS, which is why you see the huge decrease in SIDS since the back to sleep campaign was launched. There are many other factors at play as well, but the unfortunate truth is you don't know if your baby is susceptible until it happens. Personally, I do co-sleep (which has been shown to decrease the incidence of SIDS by having parental breathing stimulate baby's breathing) and take appropriate precautions to prevent suffocation. I do not put baby to sleep on their stomachs until they start rolling to that position themselves-there isn't much you can do to stop it at that point! I am all for people making their own informed parenting decisions but please be sure and research to understand what you are doing first!Clairenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-86878198693570813082014-06-13T18:33:15.012-07:002014-06-13T18:33:15.012-07:00Love it!! I struggle with #5 I admit ... granted I...Love it!! I struggle with #5 I admit ... granted I've only had two births (although the second time was twins), but I was sitting there nursing two newborns and I was like NOOOOO let ME feed my toddler lunch *I* have to do it!! I blame the hormones. :-P Rosemaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17699055172049185864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-28094850710091014862014-06-13T18:18:34.819-07:002014-06-13T18:18:34.819-07:00Have any of you (particularly the anons) even read...Have any of you (particularly the anons) even read the "hallmark" SIDS or co sleep study? Clearly not..A retrospective cold call study to 200 parents..do you have a kid? Did they die? Did they sleep on their belly or cosleep? Did you heavily drink or utilize recreational drugs? yes they died...belly slept...and you and your partner were heavily sedated..perfect drugged parents with a potentially drugged environment can roll on babies or babies may not have great oxygen supply. Perfect. Clearly the only thing to glean is don't belly sleep or cosleep. in the 80s it was belly is best..90s side is safe..2000s back is best. Relax. We are all trying to do what is best.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-39622928949451234782014-06-13T17:07:10.207-07:002014-06-13T17:07:10.207-07:00Oh my goodness I love this! Preach! I am all about...Oh my goodness I love this! Preach! I am all about tummy sleeping. It took me a month with my first to figure that out. I am sharing the with err'yone.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02306560676702131580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-54959292853786873122014-06-13T14:32:34.777-07:002014-06-13T14:32:34.777-07:00Blythe!
Goodness, all these silly offended peopl...Blythe!<br /><br />Goodness, all these silly offended people getting their panties in a bunch. I personally go commando most of the time so I can talk freely ;) <br /><br />In your defense, these crazies obviously don't know you, and are assuming you're being flippant and whatever. First, you're not flippant...but you are spontaneous and willing to break the rules. That's where these folks are missing the boat and getting offended.<br /><br />Can we just clarify that after mentioning idiot parents your example rules (that have been established because of idiot parents) were drunk parents and parents who leave their kids in cars. #idiotparents<br /><br />Also, your intention and opening disclaimer was "you're an idiot if you need those types of rules. And you're an idiot if you're too scared to break THE rules or even your own rules to figure out what's best for you and your baby".<br /><br />Clearly you were not calling "textbook parents" idiots. <br /><br />Have you ever watched Elizabeth Town? "They" say your kid has to sleep on its back. "They" say this and "They" say that. Well I say, who the heck are "They"?! "They" really talk too much and make/change the rules far too often. Rules are more like fads...and they constantly change. So make your own and break your own people. <br /><br />Also, for the same offended group of panty-bunched people...the "5 favorite rules to break..." does not mean YOU should break them. They should either 1) confirm that you're not a bad parent because you're secretly breaking the same "rule" or 2) give you a little courage to go commando and maybe break a few rules so you can have a less stress filled life. <br /><br />That's all! Thanks for encouraging mama's to go against the flow if it feels right. <br />Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11161403008204547741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-34250184726133786452014-06-13T14:10:24.556-07:002014-06-13T14:10:24.556-07:00We preferred rotating our kids from side to side. ...We preferred rotating our kids from side to side. but that's what worked for us.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03101436976907025378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-34338134895862619172014-06-13T14:04:11.245-07:002014-06-13T14:04:11.245-07:00Mother of six, husband a physician and he's be...Mother of six, husband a physician and he's been posted 3 provinces away for a long time. And we've done the family bed for all of them, even with hubby home. They do move into their own bed in time. As long as you hit all the buttons (physical, emotional, nutritional, intellect, and spiritually), and do your best loving them, give the them the best opportunities you can, kids will do well, (1 in university and another to follow - and that may not mean anything either). Other counties have their kids sleep with them, and they all survived And we can't all be the same, or we'll be raising all the same robots. Its ok to be different. And its ok to give advise on what works for you. Advise is just that advise, but you do what is within your means. No buddies perfect....well I know 1....but I know he'll tell me the perfect way when I get to see him.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03101436976907025378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-57923614512189132032014-06-13T09:43:43.662-07:002014-06-13T09:43:43.662-07:00I am interested to note that the critical comments...I am interested to note that the critical comments all seem to be anonymous. That makes me take them much less seriously.<br /><br />Also, pediatricians mostly don't have doctorates. They have MDs. A pediatrician might have a PhD (a doctorate) in addition to an MD, but it is not the norm.Melissa H-Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03674140433439195917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-57279542431740932482014-06-13T00:32:12.315-07:002014-06-13T00:32:12.315-07:00I don't let my son sleep on his belly because ...I don't let my son sleep on his belly because every time I've ''tested'' him, he's failed and smooshed his cute face right into the mattress. But, it's MY decision, not the "rules". I also let him sleep in my bed for most of his four months because that makes sense as a safety measure to me, too. If baby can hear, smell, and feel mama, it doesn't seem likely he'll forget to breathe. <br /><br />The picture of your bedecked son is darling. :)Susahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17406223271625363886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-4314781268891345582014-06-12T22:45:55.226-07:002014-06-12T22:45:55.226-07:00Love this!! As my mother always says, "The ba...Love this!! As my mother always says, "The baby didn't know he was supposed to read the rule book."amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08042196441402705907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-35291193426896037062014-06-12T22:43:39.193-07:002014-06-12T22:43:39.193-07:00I've also heard that it is much more dangerous...I've also heard that it is much more dangerous to put a baby on their stomach who is used to sleeping on their back. It's really different to put a 5 month old baby, who has never slept on their stomach, on their tummy, than to put a 2 day old baby on their tummy.amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08042196441402705907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-77821017506341241222014-06-12T19:39:05.218-07:002014-06-12T19:39:05.218-07:00Agreed, when the rules were changed from stomach s...Agreed, when the rules were changed from stomach sleeping to back sleeping the SIDS rate plummeted. Sadly, these articles are sure to send it back up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-56155737417577451132014-06-12T19:36:07.159-07:002014-06-12T19:36:07.159-07:00Anonymous, I am so sorry for your loss. I agree th...Anonymous, I am so sorry for your loss. I agree that this article is incredibly flippant. The article is quick to suggest that you only need to follow the rules if one lacks common sense. (Because according to the article, the rules should be tossed out and baby will be just fine unless the parent lacks common sense....) Doing whatever "feels right" is not always a recipe for success. What does the pediatrician know anyway? He or she only has a doctorate and decades of experience. Pediatricians have these rules because they know the tragedies. They don't have the "It can't happen to me syndrome" that the average person suffers from because they deal with the bad things that happen and they know they are more common than people think. They comfort the grieving parents that have lost a child after such seemingly small oversights like the one of the neighbor's that resulted in the incident that took your niece. Anonymous, I am so sorry for your loss. Y'all are in my prayers. <br /><br />We are all certainly entitled to our opinions, but blogs that tell people to ignore the rules set forth by their pediatricians in favor of emotions and feelings is incredibly dangerous. Often, after having egos stroked by bloggers advocating "mommy's instincts" over doctorates and decades of research and experience, these kinds of articles are trusted by parents. I would hate to have it on my conscience if a child was ever harmed because I told parents they need to ignore the advice of experts. My background is in neuroscience. These "rules" regarding sleeping positions come from researchers dedicated to keeping families healthy - plain and simple. Babies' brains are not developed enough to properly and consistently assess a lack of oxygen and move away while sleeping. Older children and adults do it subconsciously, but babies do not. This makes suffocation a huge risk for infants. They roll into blankets, siblings, parents, walls, they stay face-planted on the mattress, etc. This is why the rules exist.<br /><br />I'm very thankful the author feels she has enough common sense to break the rules and keep her babies invincible even while she sleeps, but I know there are plenty of very good parents out there that will read this article and get upset, because this article is a slap in the face to any parent that lost a child to SIDS. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8165594238100314829.post-75235843744176272822014-06-12T16:07:48.955-07:002014-06-12T16:07:48.955-07:00So glad I am not the only one that lets their babi...So glad I am not the only one that lets their babies sleep on their tummies! I love this post. I do all these things for sure.K's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16438177868644304741noreply@blogger.com